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Mentoring

What is mentoring?

"Mentoring is to support and encourage people to manage their own learning in order that they may maximise their potential, develop their skills, improve their performance and become the person they want to be." Eric Parsloe, The Oxford School of Coaching & Mentoring.

Mentoring is a partnership between two people (mentor and mentee) normally working in a similar field or sharing similar experiences. It is a helpful relationship based upon mutual trust and respect.

Mentoring allows the mentee to explore new ideas in confidence. It is a chance to look more closely at yourself, your issues, opportunities and what you want in life. Mentoring is about becoming more self aware, taking responsibility for your life and directing your life in the direction you decide, rather than leaving it to chance.

Mentoring helps you see the big picture and understand the politics of the organisation you work for, and is one of the best ways to develop yourself and is a great way not to have to go it alone. 

Mentoring is a joint venture. Successful mentoring means sharing responsibility for learning. Regardless of the facilities, the subject matter, the timing, and all other variables.

What is the benefit to me of having a mentor?

Your mentor is an advisor, someone who is on your side; who is loyal, interested, trusted and most importantly, experienced in areas that you may not be. Your mentor can be seen as a wise, experienced friend, who leads by example and is a role model. Your mentor will provide motivation and inspiration. One of the most valuable assets your career or business can have is a good mentor.

There are a few important things that will help you make the most of your mentor. 

Meet with your mentor on a regular basis
Set clear objectives
Rely on your mentor for guidance, not answers
Be honest
A mentor is not a dumping ground 

Your mentor will help you to believe in yourself and boost your confidence. Your mentor will ask questions and challenge, while providing guidance and encouragement.